Friday, April 26, 2013
Book - Raise Him Up - A Single Mother's Guide to Raising a Successful Black Man
Authors - Derrick Moore and Stephanie Perry Moore
Publisher - Thomas Nelson
Paperback, 265 pages.
For a Mother to be a sole provider for her family is a large burden to carry. When she is trying to raise a successful son alone, she has it even harder. This book is a perfect guidebook for single mothers.
Derrick shares lessons and memories of his own mother. Her strong and courageous wisdom floored me. I am in awe of her. Derrick grew up in a financially poor household. His Mother worked to support him, and his two siblings. She did a fantastic job.
Derrick gives us motivational lessons, including inspiring stories and brief Bible lessons. He talks about mothers being the cheerleaders and coaches of their children. His writing makes one feel like one is having dinner at his house and hearing incredible wisdom. He is a valuable mentor!
Stephanie gives us wonderful pep talks. At one point, I got out my pen and started highlighting sections. To me, that means I intend to keep this book and benefit from its wisdom for a long time!
I want to share a couple of quotes from the book:
Page 45: "It's very important that you stay disciplined. Don't get caught up in attempting to give what your son wants; instead, give him what he needs."
Page 48: "My mother was great at giving what she had and not complaining about what she didn't have."
Page 26: "Will you put into use all the tools at your disposal to reach your son and call him forth into the destiny God has prepared for him?"
Throughout the book, you will find sections like: "Mama's Stories;" "Time Out;" "Spiritual Impact;" and "Athletic Tale." I realize this book was written specifically for single mothers who are struggling to raise their sons, but I found it highly valuable for me - as a wife and mother of five children. Derrick and Stephanie share tremendous insights into what godly, successful motherhood looks like. This is a valuable book!
*Disclosure - I received a copy of this book for review purposes.*